document updated 14 years ago, on Oct 29, 2009
- basically:
- IF YOU CAN GO SHOPPING WITH A GG, it's WAYYY easier, because
everyone assumes you're a couple who's shopping for clothes for HER,
not you.
- go to the gender dressing room you're presenting as
(if you can pass as female, go to the female dressing room)
- There's only a conflict if the store has ONLY women's dressing rooms,
and you're presenting as male.
In that case, there are many other stores that
have both male and female clothing, so just go there.
(Target, Walmart, ...)
- If you use the "it's a gift" excuse, then that makes it difficult to use
the dressing rooms.
http://www.tgtoday.com/makeupandfashion/shopping.html
http://www.sissykiss.com/forumdisplay.php?f=71
http://www.sissykiss.com/showthread.php?t=6981
http://www.sissykiss.com/showthread.php?t=3678
Old Navy have unisex dressing rooms.
http://www.chicagotransgender.net/shopping-nationwide.html
http://www.chicagotransgender.net/shopping-chicago.html
http://www.chicagotransgender.net/resources-shopping.html (tips)
Stores that have unisex dressing rooms:
- Old Navy
Possible things to say:
- I'm buying this as a gift (though then they tend not to give any advice)
- better to be straightforward and honest, possibly even going too far
and saying you're trans
- While it's fine to be honest with the staff, you should still be discrete
Their biggest concern is that you don't worry any other customers
http://www.chicagotransgender.net/stories/
(especially if it's regarding "some MEN have been trying on the clothing
that I'm trying on??)
To address these concerns, it's best to shop at a time of day that's
not busy, and/or to talk to the local manager and ask if a private fitting room is available.
Also, if you can "pass", even if the employees notice you, they're much
more likely to work with you, if you have a good chance at passing with
most customers.
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/general-chatter/181175-men-womens-fitting-rooms-2.html