One thing to keep in mind is that your parents are experiencing a loss. Even
though you are excited and proud of your life choice, they may need some time
to let go of the dreams they had for you. They may be thinking they will never
see you walk down the aisle or become grandparents. Later, as they grow to
accept your lesbianism, they will see that those things are possible for you
too. Right now they might not see it. 


Be prepared to answer questions. Let them know this is not something you chose,
nor was it their fault. 


Do your parents belong to a religion that condems homosexuality? You might be
prepared with some religious teachings from their faith that counter those
arguments.


Let them know that you are happy and adjusted in your life. Let them know you
have friends and other family members who love and support you.  Your parents
may worry about the discrimination you may face. Assure them you can stick up
for yourself and that you use good judgment. 


Your parents might need to talk with someone. Be prepared with your local PFLAG
number, their web site and maybe even some brochures. Even if it seems like
they are not going to accept you, remember that people do change and most
parents do come around. 

    Fort Wayne
        http://ourdems.org/pflagfw/

    South Bend
        http://www.gaymichiana.org/pflag.html





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