Unfortunately, it seems that no matter how marginalized a group is, now matter how progressive a group claims to be, everyone still finds time to put down femininity:

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<li><b>cis/hetero people</b> &mdash; much has been written about <A href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexism">traditional sexism</a>, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_culture">rape culture</a>, etc
<li><B>feminists</b> &mdash; Most feminists are not pro-<i>femininity</i>, they're only pro-<i>women</i>.  
        <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Womyn-born_womyn">[1]</a>
        <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michigan_Womyn's_Music_Festival#.22Womyn_Born_Womyn.22_policy_and_debate_over_Trans_inclusion">[2]</a>
    <ul>This is not just transphobia, because they often <A href="http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=%22it+started+with+male-to-female+transsexuals%22">prefer</a> trans-masculine people over trans-feminine people.  Whenever they do this (even if the preference is slight), they are effectively saying "the more a woman acts like a man, the more we like her".  It's amazing they don't see how fucked up this is.</ul>
    
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    <br>It's amazing that they don't see how fucked up this is. It literally means that the more a woman acts like a man, the cooler she is.  As long as she's born a woman, that's all we care about.</ul> -->
<li><b>gay men</b> &mdash; gay guys generally find effeminate/nellie guys to be unattractive
        <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sissyphobia:_Gay_Men_and_Effeminate_Behavior">[1]</a>
        <a href="http://enagoski.wordpress.com/2010/08/09/banging-the-effeminate-drum/">[2]</a>
        <a href="http://www.salon.com/sex/feature/2001/08/01/nelly/">[3]</a>
        <a href="http://www.youth-suicide.com/gay-bisexual/semen/21n-hatred-of-feminity.htm">[4a]</a>
        <a href="http://www.youth-suicide.com/gay-bisexual/semen/21o-hatred-of-feminine-males.htm">[4b]</a>
        <a href="http://www.youth-suicide.com/gay-bisexual/semen/21p-hating-sissy-boys.htm">[4c]</a>
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    (granted, by definition, most gay guys are more attracted to masculinity, <!-- but you'd think that since gay guys feel more free to express their femininity than cishetero guys, that nellies would find <i>some</i> acceptance-->
    but you'd think that since they've <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6maXZ1eCCY&feature=player_embedded">long realized</a> that gender is non-binary, that they'd be more accpeting of gender-variance)
    </ul>
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