This is coming up in conversations with strangers more lately. It can be hard to address specific questions without diving into an hour-long "Transgender 101" lecture.

What do you mean by "genderqueer"?

• When I get to the male/female checkbox on forms, I don't know which one to choose.
• I don't mind if people mistakenly call me sir or ma'am.
• No matter what restroom I use, there's a chance someone will stop me for being in the "wrong" one.