Fortunately, there's a solution. Developmental biology has lots of terms for them, since for the first few weeks of fetal development the genital structures are undifferentiated.
female | male | gender-neutral | example usage |
---|---|---|---|
ovaries | testes | gonads ‡ | Ze has giant gonads to wear that outfit, but ze really rocks it. |
labia | scrotum | genital swellings labioscrotal folds | |
clitorous | penis | genital tubercle | Suck my genital tubercle! |