Fortunately, there's a solution. Developmental biology has lots of terms for them, since for the first few weeks of fetal development the genital structures are undifferentiated.
| female | male | gender-neutral | example usage |
|---|---|---|---|
| ovaries | testes | gonads ‡ | Ze has giant gonads to wear that outfit, but ze really rocks it. |
| labia | scrotum | genital swellings labioscrotal folds | |
| clitorous | penis | genital tubercle | Suck my genital tubercle! |