really good witticisms

• If you have problems within your relationship, the solution very rarely is to add more people.
• If you get into an argument, never go to another lover's house for "escape".

relatively good bits of advice

• It's a lot easier if the relationship starts off as a poly relationship, rather than trying to jump-start an existing one

longer pieces

• polyamorysociety.org/tools.html
• polyamorousmisanthrope.com/category/boundaries/ (damn, there's some really good stuff here, especially earlier on)

smaller bits of advice

• maybe you'll never reach the "no jealousy" utopia, but that's fine
• various STD tests